When I was 15, I had this soft spot in my heart for boys in bands, specifically, the lead singers. I guess I didn’t really care if they COULD sing, so much as if they DID sing. These boys were “sweet” and “deep,” they could feel pain and express emotion, and do sexxy things like lick the microphone while singing. It was a completely stupid school-grrl fantasy, one in which I frequently indulged and thankfully broke myself of later on.
On the rebound from another boy in a band, I met Ken, who sang in a band called 7 Times Around. The name was super deep, as it meant he had been “through the ringer” with 7 other girls. You know, because at 15 everything is very, very important and relationships happen very quickly.
Well, Your Aunt Becky because dumb ass lucky number 8.
I knew he liked me because he gave me a necklace in the shape of a smiley face with a bullet hole through it’s head. Romantic, eh? That probably should have been my sign to run away, but because I am not only stupid but a masochist too, I stuck around. Not for very long, though, because Ken was a weenie and I knew it. I mainly dated him because, you know, I was trying to get over someone else.
Out of sight, out of mind.
A couple of months later, I’d made my friend Evan pick me up and drive me around in his car, and we were gossiping like a couple of bitches when he’s all, “What happened with you and Ken?”
And I was all, “Dude, I dumped him because he was fucking lame.”
And he was all, “No way.”
I could tell by the way that he said it that he didn’t really believe me.
“Why?” I asked him. “What have you heard?”
“Well,” he said conspiratorially. “You should know that Ken’s been going around telling anyone who will listen that the reason HE dumped YOU is because you wouldn’t put out.”
“Oh?” I said, my eyebrow arched, annoyed. We hadn’t even come close to having The Sex.
“Wait,” he said. “It gets better. You wouldn’t put out, Ken tells us, because you had a yeast infection.”
Internet, I will tell you that I laughed until I cried. Whatever Ken had been smoking, I want some of that.