Bad news. We’re off to the NICU for observation. I wish it were me.


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  1. Shit again. Email at tashabf at gmail if you need anything. Or need to vent. Or just need to get out everything going on. Keep pumping. Take no prisoners. Motherfuck, I’m so pissed and depressed right now. Thinking of you all.

  2. Oh, Becks. Damn it.

    I wish I could do something more than offer my very hardest prayers. But that’s all I have right now because I’m so far away. However, if you need to talk, add me to your e-mail chain.

    Thinking of you and sweet Amelia. Hang in.

  3. i know just how you feel! my son was in the NICU for 8 weeks and one day. it aint pretty. i would have given anything to trade places with him. sending positive thoughts your way!

  4. You and your sweet sweet girl are in my prayers. I am thinking of you. Let me know if you need anything.

  5. Damn…it’s not the start anyone wants but I’m sure it’ll turn out OK. Keep us updated and hang in there. A lot of people are thinking of you guys.

  6. Call me if you need me. My cell is almost dead but I think you have my work number. I am here until 4:15 then home after that. Thinking of you all and hoping everything comes out fine and soon damn it!

  7. Oh, I’m so sorry. I hope your stay in the NICU is a short one and you are both home soon. The NICU is a wonderful place, but I wouldn’t want to go back there.
    Praying for good news soon.

  8. Becky, You have the digits, use them if you want or need to. I’m thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Happy shiny thoughts and prayers! Fuck, fuck, fuck!

  9. Stay positive. I was in the NICU for 6+ weeks with Maggie, and a good part of her life for the next 3 years. But she’s the most fabulous thing ever right now! If being in the NICU was the price for being with her now, I’d do it again in a heartbeat! Hang in there!

  10. Here’s hoping and praying your little girl is going to be just fine, and this will be one of those scary moments that will become part of the lore of her birth story. This sucks, and I am so sorry.

  11. I’m hoping all is okay. Really. Saying lots of prayers for you and baby Amelia right now. Lots of us are, okay?

  12. Hey hon! I’m sure it’s going to be just fine. Not that that makes anything having to do with your newborn daughter less scary. I had a cyst on my neck when i was first born (fluid filled) it had to be drained but I was fine as wine. Speaking of wine, have the Daver bring you some!!!

    Love you!

  13. Oh, fuck, Becky. If I lived near you, I’d go out right now, get some Ben & Jerry’s Brownie Batter ice cream (it’s the shiz) and come sit with you. That’s what I would do.

  14. Holy shit, I think we all wish we could take Amelia’s place right now. Stay strong Becy we’re all thinking of you.

  15. PS – Ask the hospital if they have counselors for support through things like this. Ask them for anything you need. They should have been through this before and be prepared to help the parents, not just the child.

  16. I am sending up prayers lately, Becky. I promise I include you. These little critters really keep us on our toes. We should blame the fathers.

    I hope everything is ok with Amelia.

  17. I know I keep posting all over the place.

    I’m just thinking of you every second, hon, and praying as hard as I ever have for all of you.

    Wee Amelia, I know you’re a fighter. Stay strong, sweet one.

  18. You can do this. The NICU is there to give the best possible care to neonates. Try not to feel too helpless. You are doing the hardest job in the world, in the hardest way. I hope for a short(very)uneventful visit to the NICU.

  19. Oh, NICU is such a rotten way to start your life. But I’m grateful they’re there. My niece was in NICU for the first few terrifying days, but she’s a healthy 18-month-old handful now. I’m so sorry. I’ll be thinking of all of you.

  20. I am keepingmy fingers and toes crossed. I will say a prayer that your little girlis o.k. I will be wishing you ALL the absolute best and calming vibes coming your way.

  21. I wish there were anything we internet stalkers could do for you except stalk your website more frequently seeking updates. I am sorry that you’re going through something so scary right now.

  22. Oh, I know how you feel, we did 36 hours of it after Xav’s birth. I know it is a terrible time and I can only say that I feel for you and am wishing you all the best.

  23. First, congrats on your daughter’s arrival! Second, so sorry about the snag. I hope it is temporary and you’ll be back to bitching soon.

  24. Crap. I still remain convinced it will be NOTHING… and in the meantime I am praying, sacrificing to various gods, and doing whatever else it takes to hear good news from you soon! Hugs to Amelia!

  25. Becky I am here. Sara and I were talking today…about our daughters who spent time in the NICU. They both have become (or always were) stubborn turds and well they are strong ass little mama’s. I am thinking of you and baby girl. *MUAH*

  26. If she is anything like her mama, she will be just fine and home in a day or two. I just know it. I’m not discounting your worry though, by all means, worry away, because I’d be an asshole if I told you something assinine like “relax” – I hate that word. But I lurve you and I can’t wait until the both of you get home.

  27. Oh, I’m so sorry about where you’re at — I came by to check on Amelia’s arrival, and found this. Thinking of you all and hope all will be OK.

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